The Quiet Cost of Being Loved Conditionally A few years ago I had a client tell me, mid-session, that she didn’t think she’d ever actually wanted the career she’d built. She said it the way people say things they’ve never said out loud before, carefully, like she was checking it…
There comes a point in many people’s lives when they quietly, or sometimes desperately, ask themselves: Why am I still here? I have done the therapy. I have read the books. I have prayed, reflected, journaled, learned, and tried. So why do I still feel caught in the same patterns?…



