The Parent You’re Angry At Is Not the Problem There is a pattern I encounter often enough in the therapy room that I have come to expect it. Someone comes in carrying years of dense, complicated frustration toward one of their parents. They can describe it in precise detail: the…
There are moments in therapy when someone says something that lands with unusual force in the room. They say, “I do not know why I am always bracing.” Not anxious about one thing in particular. Not panicked in any dramatic way. Just bracing. Bracing for conflict. Bracing for disappointment. Bracing…



