What Is Actually Mine A client told me last winter that she’d spent four days on an email that was two sentences long. She had to let a colleague know she couldn’t take on a file he’d asked her to cover, and the draft had been finished since Tuesday morning.…
The Distance We Mistake for Healing Let me concede the ground where the critique is right, because everything after it depends on that concession. There are relationships a person should leave. Where there is violence, ongoing abuse, addiction that pulls everyone near it under, manipulation that rewrites your sense of…



